There is only one boss. One logical base code that is driven through many sets of motion, in many different views of the world that make all of us.
When you are agitated or excited, you are being pulled into the world around you, and part of the code outside of you rules your actions. Become the pure code inside, the holy spirit, by going nowhere and doing nothing.
Yet in this world, you might need many a life before you reach that level. Give it a try. Being peaceful feels like being the boss of everything.
give it a try, you will see you are super full of things already